So you are in a relationship with your boyfriend and he is giving you some attitude; please do not take these signs lightly. They are clues that he is not a serious person.
In relationships, there are certain things women watch out for in their men that would make them know whether the men are serious or not. These things form a long lasting impression in the hearts of the women as they would be able to predict the viability of those relationships.
There are certain traits that are synonymous to men who are probably not so into you or men who come into the relationship for the fun of it. Most men know that not all ladies would want to go into a relationship that is defined as a fling so they pretend to be in the relationship fully.
Although, it has been discovered that many women love to be lied to as they would rather go for the lies than to accept the truth, men still find a way to exhibit some of their unserious traits.
Without mincing words, let us look at some of the signs that say your boyfriend is not a serious person
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1.When you tell him you are fine and he believes
Women love to be dramatic; it is what we know how to do best. When you tell your boyfriend you are fine and he leaves you alone, then he is not serious. Every man should know that when women say they are FINE, they mean they are ‘Freaked out’, left with a feeling of ‘Insecurity’, ‘Neurotic’ and ‘Emotional’.
2. When you tell him you are broke and he says me too
Men could be so annoying at times; you will know your boyfriend is not serious when you complain to him about being broke and he says he is broke too. Who does that? and you can be sure they would chide you about being the head of the relationship few minutes later.
3. When you are his last priority
When your boyfriend does everything on his to-do list and make you the last item to be treated, then you would know your relationship is not solid and he is not a serious somebody.
4. When you cannot play with him over certain things
When your boyfriend is too rigid when it comes to certain things and issues, you should start to reconsider the relationship. He may not be a serious person if he gets worked up because you ate out of his food and made a call with his phone.
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5. When he reaches orgasm before you and leaves you alone
What sort of behavior is that? If your boyfriend makes it his habit to cum before you do and leave you to reach orgasm by thinking about the sexual escapade, there is no doubt about him being an unserious person.
6. When you tell him you do not want anything for your birthday and he listens
You will know your Nigerian boyfriend is not serious when you tell him you do not want anything for your birthday because you do not want him to see you as being materialistic and he then he gets you nothing. How on earth would he take you serious on a special occasion as that?
7. When you are more into him than he is into you
You do not need a soothsayer to tell you about the future of a relationship like that. A relationship where you always do everything it takes to make it work is faulty; making it work should be a joint effort. If your Nigerian boyfriend acts like he is being forced to be in that relationship, then he is a ‘yeye’ boyfriend.
very true
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